Two Wonderful Men To Choose From
Dear Queenie, I am a 25 year old woman, student, and worker. I try to make smart choices, and therefore had waited to have a family. I met my boyfriend Pit 7 years ago. During all this time we broke up several times, because we are very different and we can’t agree or understand each other most of the time (among other problems). He is 9 years older than me. So age is part of the issue, or at least I considered being. He is the serious type of guy, responsible, and respectful. Continue reading
A Man From Her Past
Dear Queenie: I have got a whale of a predicament! I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, as well as having him live with me, but a man from my past has entered the picture once again. My mom introduced me to my boyfriend and we were inseparable. However, for the last 3 months, our relationship has been increasingly tense and my sexual drive towards him is decreasing into nonexistance. Continue reading
She’s In His Will?
My high school sweetheart and I starting dating again about 3 years ago–both divorced. We see each other almost every day: dinner, movies, trips, events etc. I love her completely and date no others. Our sex life is awesome. The past year and half or so, an old boy friend she dated about 10 years ago–after her divorce–started calling her. Continue reading
Eight Months Pregnant
I’m eight months pregnant and on bed rest due to signs of preterm labor. I can’t work or venture to the grocery store. My boyfriend told me that he can’t stand me and I have pretty solid proof that he’s been sleeping with someone else. We don’t live together, but I’m thinking of moving to get away from the whole situation. I like my doctor here, and when I’m back from maternity related leave I have a job that I like as well. Continue reading
Back From Paradise
I spent the past two months cruising and visiting some of the most beautiful places in the world. Of course a lot of the time I spent playing cards with some of the old ladies I met on the ship, and even more time I spent feeding nickels into slot machines so I could get free pina coladas. Continue reading
Doesn’t Want To Be A Fool Again
Dear Queenie, my bf of 7yrs. works in banking. he has been fired several times or just gets moved around to different banks. every time he goes to a new branch or bank he get infatuated with a co worker. I have only known him 7 years but before that I think it was the same when he was married. Most of the ladies I think are flattered but not really interested in him as he is not very good looking. one lady a few years ago lead him on I think to make her other boyfriend jealous or for gifts that he would lavish on her. as a rule he is not very gorgeous. Continue reading
Worried About Her BFF’s BF
Dear Queenie, my best friend of 14 years has been in a long-distance relationship for more than a year now. She moved away for college about two years back and I’ve only recently met her boyfriend. For some reason I’m not getting good vibes from him and his behaviour seems too obsessive. He doesn?t let her be friends with guys or even go to parties if he is not around. If for some reason she is unable to pick his calls he calls me asking where she is. My friend seems different now from when we started college. She used to laugh and go out a lot but now she just sits at home and just seems sad in general. Continue reading
Attracted To A Married Man: VI
Hey Queenie!! I hope all is well with you!! I just wanted to stop by and give you an update! I did call my MM to give him my condolences about his dad passing (I would have done the same for any other co-worker as well) and he said that it meant alot to him. We talked briefly, and both realized (again) that had we continued it would have been a total disaster. He also realized what he has in his relationship with his wife and is even more appreciative of her now (if that’s possible?) Continue reading
Only Friends?
Just found out there is a women who is coming on to my bf. he has told her he wants to only be friends because he is with me. but she is trying to get him to call her. telling him to call when i am a sleep or go out so she can tell him what she wants to do to him. sending him pic of her boobs and storys of them having sex and asking him to call her and meet her. Continue reading
Self-Fulfilling Prophecy?
I hold a very stressful position in the US military which has recently required me to be away from home for months at a time. During these times apart my wife of 6 years has wrongfully accused me many times of cheating. She has been so paranoid that she will randomly call up my friends from work to validate every detail of my story in order to try and catch me in a lie. Continue reading
Attracted To A Married Man: V
Hi Queenie, I’m just curious, why have you not responded to my latest emails? Are you disgusted/done with me? Or are you simply too busy? Just so you know, my MM’s father recently died, and I still have not called him. It happened last Sunday. I really want to just send him a message that I care, but don’t want to get into that whole mess again. Should I contact him? Can I? He hasn’t been at work for me to contact him safely. I figure he’s got enough going on. Continue reading
Attracted To A Married Man: Part IV
Well since you give yourself so little credit…. Had you ACTUALLY listended to me instead of judging me, you would have seen that your advice did play a part in the final decision. Not all affairs end up on the dark side. Continue reading
Attracted To A Married Man: Part III
Hi. First off let me say thank you again. I appreciate your advice!!! Now (please) let me continue with my saga: First, I just want to clear the air, I have NEVER visioned myself as the other woman, nor do we enjoy being in this situation. We fully understand the circumstances and atleast I know that right now, it IS an emotional affair. I am sure he has no idea what an emotional affair is. But I WILL educate him the next time I see him!!! Continue reading
Attracted To A Married Man: Part II
Hey Queenie: Thanks for the quick reply and the great advice!! I took it to heart!!! I broke up with him the next time I saw him (last Friday night), after we both agonized over it for hours. We talked about everything that we felt was so right but we knew was so wrong!!! We agreed that it was best, for both of us (and everyone involved). When I left him that night to go home, I could not help but to feel absolutely devastated. I felt like I had been dating this man for 10 years and I did not understand why I was so distraught? But none the less, we agreed to only talk about work, while at work on work phones. And that was it!!! Continue reading
Attracted To A Married Man
Hi. I just stumbled upon your site. I am a single w/f 37 yoa and lonely. I am attractive, but have a very hard time meeting men. Just to say it I am a home body with no real hobbies, so I often find myself at home alone (which I am totally comfortable with). It’s my safe place and I love it!!! I’ve met a man who is married. He’s been married for 20 years, and has 2 kids (I’m not sure of they’re exact ages but they are not children). Continue reading