Two Wonderful Men To Choose From

Dear Queenie, I am a 25 year old woman, student, and worker. I try to make smart choices, and therefore had waited to have a family. I met my boyfriend Pit 7 years ago. During all this time we broke up several times, because we are very different and we can’t agree or understand each other most of the time (among other problems). He is 9 years older than me. So age is part of the issue, or at least I considered being. He is the serious type of guy, responsible, and respectful. Continue reading Two Wonderful Men To Choose From

A Man From Her Past

Dear Queenie: I have got a whale of a predicament! I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, as well as having him live with me, but a man from my past has entered the picture once again. My mom introduced me to my boyfriend and we were inseparable. However, for the last 3 months, our relationship has been increasingly tense and my sexual drive towards him is decreasing into nonexistance. Continue reading A Man From Her Past

In Love With Another Man

I am practically married (10 years common-law), and we have two children. I had an affair for three months with someone whom I grew very attached to. We always talked about how we both wished we were single so that we could do whatever we wanted without having to worry about someone seeing us together. But he is living with someone else too. I ended it by saying that I thought we should just be friends,and he agreed with me (due to gossip and suspecting people).

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His Girlfriend Is Torn Between Two Lovers

I’m a 37 year old male who has been in a committed 3 year relationship. I love the girl very much and had intentions of marriage as did she at one time. Due to a few bumps in the road, ie-she was in a near fatal accident (I helped nurse her back to health over a period of approximately 1 1/2 years and some financial/business difficulties on my part), marriage was pushed to the side.

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Should She Worry About His Ex?

My boyfriend has a very close relationship with his ex-girlfriend. they lived together for 3 yrs. They broke up 8 months before we met (he and i are in a on-again-off-again 5 months now–for a lot of reasons). He and his ex constantly talk on the phone to this very day. I told him that this bothers me. I don’t see why they still have to keep close contact with each other–they have no kids, don’t work together, etc. He even told her that I am jealous of her!

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Follow Her Heart?

Dearest Queenie, I waited for this guy “K” for a year and 9 months while he was doing his time in jail. He loves me and I knew he was the only guy I had so much feeling for, maybe it was my insecurities or maybe I was listening to my mother too much. She told me that it was best if I be with the one that loves me rather than the one I loved. That way I wouldn’t be mistreated.

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His wife has a female lover

Yo, check this out, Queen. I’m at home relaxing and my wife comes in and she had a female friend with her, but this female friend doesn’t dress like a female she looks like a guy, right. I knew something was up, so I got her friend alone and we talked, come to find out they’re sleeping together. I confront my wife and she tells me that she is sleeping with this girl but she’s just having fun and I should understand that she wants to be with me and blaa blaa blaa blaa.

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