Queenie, I have a very close friend that I’ve known for over 20 years, and we’re both gay. We are like best friends, and we are attracted to each other. We’ve gone through life together, and we’ve been there for each other and have seen each other through thick or thin. He’s had partners in the past, and is now With his partner of 14 years. Continue reading Friends or More?
Category: Looking For Love
Not The Right One
iam in contact with a guy from a week, but he is not compatible in terms of educational qualifications & also not doing any job. i live in hostel, introvert person, very few frnds.. i want a guy with whom i can shop, can go for movie, share my feelings.. but i think it is not good for use someone for my profit.. he is asking me about being in relationship? what to do? Continue reading Not The Right One
He’s Ready To Date, She’s Not
I’ve had feelings for this girl for three years, i finally became friends with her about 11 months ago and now we’re really close, i’m in grade 9 right now and she says she’ll only start dating after high school. she goes to a different hig hschool than me but i see her almost everyday at her bus stop. if just stop being her friend, she’ll cry and hate me forever. should i just wait the four years? Continue reading He’s Ready To Date, She’s Not
Love At First Sight?
I have always believed in love at first sight, and when I saw this guy (we’ll call him Harry), when I saw Harry two nights ago I fell in love immediately. My whole being longed to be with his. I’ve never ever felt the way seeing him made me feel… I can’t even describe it. I feel connected to him, and almost like I know him (and I definitely do not). Continue reading Love At First Sight?
He Hasn’t Called
Hi, I am from India. I fell in love with this guy the moment i saw him. I approached him and he agreed. We have been together for more than 3 months. I saw no problems except that he never called much. It was usually me who called. He spoke about our future together first. Now al of a sudden he asked for a break because he needed to think about where we are headed. Continue reading He Hasn’t Called
Attracted To A Married Man
Hi. I just stumbled upon your site. I am a single w/f 37 yoa and lonely. I am attractive, but have a very hard time meeting men. Just to say it I am a home body with no real hobbies, so I often find myself at home alone (which I am totally comfortable with). It’s my safe place and I love it!!! I’ve met a man who is married. He’s been married for 20 years, and has 2 kids (I’m not sure of they’re exact ages but they are not children). Continue reading Attracted To A Married Man
The Game Of Love
I’m a 27 year old female who has been kinda chasing after a 30 year old male. We have been on several dates and when were together everything perfect we have so much fun. but he refuses to let me get to close to him, he said its because he has been hurt 3 times before. I have been hurt to but that doesn’t stop me from trying again. I need your advise on how to handle this matter. I really want to be with him. — Mattie
Like A Fish Out Of Water
I am a 33 year old female who has been in a relationship for over a year and a half with a 38 year old man. He is a wonderful man, who is very kind and generous. We do not live together yet, and have an hour and 1/2 separating us. He owns a cottage in the area where I grew up with my family and this is where we met. We meet at his cottage on the weekends and we also try to get together one day through the week.
Is Her Old Boyfriend History?
Hi – Thank you for your excellent column… I read it frequently and find it very helpful and enjoyable. Let’s see if I can consolidate my question sufficiently to entice you to give me your wisdom on it… I am a 28 year old professional, who up until 2 months ago was in a pretty serious 1 year relationship. That relationship was having its troubles in early June, when along came a 24 year old woman into my work environment who was just supposed to be here for the summer.
Tired Of The Stress
I have been separated from ex-husband for 7 yrs and in current relationship for 4 years. My current partner does not have a colourful past, and can be at times quite controlling, especially when it comes to discipline for my son. (from my ex-husband).
In Love Too Soon
I told him I loved him when I was very intoxicated and he dumped me the next day….I was very shocked and hurt we hadnt been going out for very long and he cited underlying issues along with…..the fact he didnt want to use me.
She Thinks She’s Boring
I haven’t dated in over four years. I finally found a man I’m interested in, but when I talk to him on the phone or in person I get all tonge tied. I feel like I’m a boring person. I don’t do this with other man, just him. What can I do to get past this, before I ruin it. Thanks
He’s Found His Soul Mate
Queenie, I am insane about a girl and I have never been like this before. I’m 28, good looking and have always been “in tune” with women’s feelings, but this one has me over the barrel.
What Was The Question?
I was going out with someone just getting to know him and it was not going anywhere for me, but for him he seemed comfortable with the was it was going (or so it seemed). He had mentioned that he wanted to take a step further and not be freinds.
Not The Time For Serious Dating
I am 33 and currently going through a divorce. Recently I met a 26 year old girl at work. We are both very interested in each other. When I met her she had a boyfriend who she has lived with for 5 years. By meeting me she realized many problems she had not realized in her own relationship. I brought them to light by the way I treated her, which was much better than her boyfriend treated her. She broke up with him to be with me even though my divorce is not final.
Her Boyfriend Is Getting Married
I have been seeing this guy for about two and a half months now. the problem is he is engaged to get married in august of this year. his fiance lives in another state., so he and i are together all of the time except for when she comes into town, even then he manages to call me and see at work.
Too Close to be Soulmates?
Dear Queenie, This is my first time writing to an advice column. Here goes… I am a 35 year old woman. I have been in a pretty good relationship for the past four years. My boyfriend treats me very good and I appreciate him especially after all of the lousy relationships I have been involved in in the past.
She Left and He Got A New Girlfriend
I dated P for 1 year and then moved west to teach. He told me he would give me one year and then he wanted me to move back east. We dated long distance throughout that year and at the end I did not know if he was the one for me. I told him I need more time to make sure. I was trying to find myself.
Really Desperate for a Relationship
Hi Queenie, I would very much appreciate your advice since I am lingering in a sad state and would like to go on with my life. I’m 35, divorced for 2 1/2 years, with a beautiful 6-year old daughter. Generally, my life is good. The only thing that’s missing is love.
Are Physical Looks Important?
iam 22 years with 5ft7″. but i weigh only approx 59kgs and so looks a bit thinner. I love a girl with good looks and figure but i am unable to express my feeling to her as i feel that i am undersize for her and so she may not like me.
Sleeping With A Mutual Friend
One of my closest friends had a crush on a mutual friend of ours for a few months, but never did anything about it. They talked on the phone occasionally, however she never told him of her feelings. In the meantime I was becoming more and more attracted to him.
Looking For Mr. Right
Dear Queenie, first of all, I want to say I think your advice is very sound and compassionate and I read your previous columns with great interest. But, none seems to relate to my exact problem.
Seeking What Should Be Hers
I have a problem that has been detrimental to all my relationships. I was raised in a family that punished me for showing any sort of emotional need. I was supposed to be the one who supported everyone else, but I never received any kind of warmth or kindness in return.
Looking for Mr. Perfect
I am in my twenties and have dated many guys. At first I always seem to be interested and have fun with them, but after a couple of months I become bored. I don’t know if it is me or just the guys I date.