Category: Can This Relationship Work?

It was quite a while ago but i saw a few scratch marks on my bfs back and i cant remember what they look like so please dont ask! has he maybe cheated or possibly just scratched his back.

Also there was another case about seven months before this he went to the park with a friend and had his phone switched off all day because he knew id be annoyed that he went and didnt tell me, as i was pregnant at the time and wouldnt have been able to go on anything. the next day i noticed a bite mark on the upper inside of his thigh (with teethmarks). Continue reading Is He A Cheater?

Right, I have this situation that obsesses me, keeping me impatient and some advise actually told me to be patient with it right now.

I’ve had thoughts about the same person for months, since we’ve had some romantic feelings towards each other and renewed love a coupple of times since when we met years ago, getting more and more intense now and looks “just a little” promising. Continue reading Friends, Lovers, or Something In Between?

There’s a man with whom I work at times- different companies and about 6 hrs away. But, he travels up here every couple of weeks. About a year ago we began to do things totally unwork related when he was in town- a hike, dinner at my house or a restaurant, etc. I wondered for a long time about what was going on between us. Continue reading Friends With Benefits?

My boyfriend (33) and I (31) have been together for 2.5 years. We have spoken about marriage twice in our relationship in the past two years and said that we wouldn’t date for more the three years. 3 weeks ago My boyfriend said that he was unsure of a commitment w me because I pressured him. Because he said he was unsure of a commitment w me, I told him that he had 7 months to propose or else we were done. We didn’t speak for two weeks. Continue reading Pressure or Non-Committal?

My question is how can I please my girlfriend again after a serious quarrel?

That’s a very vague question with TLI for me to know what that serious quarrel was about or how many times you’ve been having that same serious quarrel. Did you cheat, again? If that’s the “quarrel” then maybe you’ve run out of chances with her. Whatever happened, if you really want to try again, talk to her, say you’re sorry, beg, cry, promise her anything. If she forgives, don’t screw up again. If she won’t forgive, take it as a learning experience and don’t screw up when you’re in a new relationship. ~ Queenie

I want 2 know if the i girl  proposed truely loves me bt i don’t know how?

Marriage is serious. It really should last a lifetime although it’s difficult to know which lifetime that is: the lifetime warranty on a PlayStation; the lifetime warranty on a set of tires; the lifetime warranty on a pacemaker. Or maybe your lifetime. Regardless of which lifetime, why would you propose to someone you’re not sure is in love with you? If she said “yes” that should be your answer–at least for whatever lifetime fits her definition. ~ Queenie

I fallen in love with a married man, whose wife cheats with internet lovers every day, after 4 years of declaring our undying love, still separate by OCEANS, Tell me is it worth it? Am I wasting my time? He is so sincere when he talks to me, I don’t think he has the guts to leave her as she always says she can kill herself. Is there any future for us? His Christian belief is to be positive. I am the negative side? Continue reading Is There A Future For Us?

Within the past year I rekindled a friendship with an ex boyfriend and within a few months we started having sex and spending alot of time together. Its like we were never apart. He has told me that he isn’t ready for a relationship ok in my mind what is two best friends sleeping with each other isn’t that a relationship. Continue reading How Long Should She Wait?

I have been with this guy for 4yrs recently he disappears for days then he comes home he as been at his moms but he doesn’t even want to help with the bills that have been adding up what shuld i be thinking and what should i do Continue reading Is He Losing Interest?

Queenie, I’m usually not in to these type of things, but I feel I need to get this off my chest and possibly get some advice. I have been dating my Girl friend for a little over a year and a half, I’m 27 and she is soon to be 31. We have had our share of struggles and I’m not a perfect person. We have had many problems with communication mostly my issue. We have worked to hash out much of those problems. Continue reading The Dating Test

Dear Queenie, I am currently in a long distance relationship. We have known each other as friends/roomates/dated a little for over a 20 year span. He’s 52 and I’m 48. We have decided to get married (neither of us has been married before, I have had two long term relationships, but I don’t think he has) and I am to move to Tampa as soon as I can obtain employment. Continue reading Feeling Unconnected

Dear Queenie: I’ve had a friend/intimate relationship with a man twelve years older than I for two years. We have both been hurt by two divorces each. We have a terrific intimate relationship but not intimate emotionally. We are both scared but I need more and he told me he can not give more. I don’t think we would make a good married couple because although we get along great and have a lot in common, I don’t like how he puts down other people. He is also a bit self-centered, but the sex is fantastic. Continue reading Sex Without Emotional Intimacy

I have a question about my boyfriend who is in jail and although I’ve seen your archives, I can’t exactly find one to fit this question particularly. My boyfriend and I didn’t actually start talking until he had been in jail for a while, but we have been friends for years.

Continue reading Jailhouse Lover

My boyfriend refuses to tell me that he loves me. He hasnt said it in almost 2 years and it really bothers me. I know he loves me but he just wont say it. He used to but after a few fights early in the relationship, he told me he does not love me.

Continue reading All Action, No Talk

My story is long and my question complex due to the past few years. I met two men around the same time frame and chose the one who seemed to be the less of a threat to my heart. I Married him but always harbored feelings for the other who made me feel “scared” you know that feeling you get when you are up high and you look below? I Married the one who made me feel “safe”. I realize now why I thought I chose him and cut all ties with the other man (the unsaf one).

Continue reading She Chose The Wrong Man

Hello, I need help! I’m madly in love with my girlfriend but she’s saying for right now we’re just friends. We’ve been together for one year but have been friends for about three. We were living together during this past year and were engaged. Now, after a not so pretty disagreement, we are living apart from each other. We still talk every day, still see each other almost every day and we even have sex. I do just about anything she asks of me and have apologized more than once.

Continue reading He Wants Her To Want Him

This question is not concerning love, but about the break down of a best friendship. I have known “Lilian” for about 3 1/2 years. I have been through alot w/her. About 2 yrs ago, she was having problems w/ her sister so, I invited her to come live w/me. Throughout this situation, she has hidden the bills from me, constantly being short on money, made bad choices, making plans, then somehow not coming through, in short, she has been a mental drain on me.

Continue reading A Friendship That’s Gone Too Far?

What are we? My “soon to be ex-husband” and I are still in love, but it is impossible for us to be together. His mom hates me, my mom hates him, and we don’t live together well. But we are really friendly to each other. We tell each other just about everything. yet there is the “chemistry or lust” betweet us. When we get together to hand out, eventually we head towards the bedroom. I don’t find this a problem, but I am feeling confused.

Continue reading Better Friends Than Spouses

Dear Queen, I have been in a wonderful relationship now for 8 months, everything is going great except for one problem i seem to have. i hope that you will be able to give me some information i need to hear.

Continue reading Should She Spend So Much Time With Her Ex?

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship except for one problem: He and I are both divorced and we are both on good terms with our exes. I speak to my ex about once a week on the phone and see him about once a month for lunch.

Continue reading Too Friendly With Their Exes?

I’ve been in a relationship with someone I love deeply for 5 years. I suspect he’s also been seeing someone else off and on. Of course, he is of the deny till you die mentality, but my intuition is screaming at me.

Continue reading Should She Contact The Other Woman?

Hi, I seperated and divorced from my ex 2 years ago, we were together 21 years, I am 43. 6 weeks after I moved out I met my current boyfriend/fiance, who I fell head over heels about when we met. The problem is that he wants to be with me 24/7, we work together and are with each other at night.

Continue reading Is He Too Insecure For a Relationship?

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, but the fact that she like this celeb has bugged me, i feel like if he were here, she’s eventually leave, or have even STRONGER feelings for him and wouldn’t leave me because she’s feel sorry about my feelings, I feel like she’d be TONS happier with him, even though she says she wouldn’t be, so should i worry about this at all?

Continue reading Star Power

Hi, I’m 28 years old and been living with a 34 year man for 2 years. We moved in together 2mnths after he separated from his unfaithfull wife of 11 years. He has 2 very young children wich I love deeply as they do me.

Continue reading Can She Handle His Baggage?

Help!!!!!! My boyfriend of three years has heard rumors of me cheating, but… I havn’t!! He says he wants to believe me but its hard to when so many are telling him these things. Not to mention someone has called him and said “your girlfriend hasn’t been faithful to you…” What? Who is this guy!

Continue reading Ugly Rumors

I’m a 34-year old, never-been-married woman who has been dating a 38-year old divorced man for almost three years. He has been divorced for five years and has a 10-year old son. We have a wonderful, loving and trusting relationship (I’ve met his entire family, gone on vacations with him and his son), but we have hit a plateau in that I want to move the relationship to the next level by getting married but he is hesitant.

Continue reading How Long Will She Wait?

I am 26 and have been dating my girfriend for 3 months i think i have a problem more with myself than her; she is very traditional, cultural and is still a virgin (she is 20 yrs old) that is not my problem actually that is something i love.

Continue reading Too Much In Love?

My boyfriend and I have been dating since Dec and I got pregnant in Feb. Just recently I was at his house, his phone rang and I answered it. It was a girl on the other end. She hung up on me. She called back on Sunday and told me that she and my boyfriend have been dating since Oct and just broke up in March.

Continue reading Is He Lying?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year & 1/2. He was separated when I first met him and his divorce has been ‘final’ for a few months now. Overall we have a Great relationship, he treats me like I want to be treated with Respect, as I do the same for him. I believe he does love me and shows me this thru his actions even though he has never said it.

Continue reading His Female Roommate

I love my fiance very much. The problem is that he just isn’t very affectionate at all and I am. He rarely even touches me. We have great sex but not as often as I would like to. I have tried to give subtle hints without being pushy or needy, but he just wants to watch TV or go to sleep. Even on weekends!

Continue reading Starved For Affection

I write to you for a better understanding on the woman I am in love with. My biggest problem with her is that whenever I try and talk to her about things that are bothering me, more often than not if it is something she does not want to hear, she gets angry and it turns into a fight.

Continue reading She Needs Space

I guess what I am wanting to know is what should I do? I’ve been in a relationship with this man for about a year and had many good times with him, although one night we had been drinking and things got out of control. He hit me! I kicked him out and he moved to California.

Continue reading Does He Deserve Another Chance?

I have been dating my girlfriend for the last 2 years. Marriage has been brought up, but there are two issues that concern me. One is that she does not like to attend my family gatherings, whether they are too large, she doesnt like crowds, of she doesn’t like certain people, she won’t go.

Continue reading Giving His Family The Cold Shoulder

I am a 32 year old divorced woman who has been been seeing a wonderful 38 year old man for over a year now that I care for very deeply. He owns a cottage in the northern country where he spends a lot of his time. This is were I met him. Before I met him, he used to bring this girl up to his cottage on the weekends and they used to date frequently.

Continue reading Three’s A Crowd

I’ve got a concern w/ a old boyfriend who is getting out soon. He may want to start a relationship again. That’s not the problem. What he’s in for although the state says it’s fine to start a family the Department of Family Services says otherwise.

Continue reading Getting Out and Starting Over

My fiancee is in jail, and we have never been together in any sort of physical way. The problem is we are both so insecure, but his is making me so sad because I feel there is no way for me to show him how true my love is. How can I show him?

Continue reading In Love In Jail

Hi there I have been dating a man for just over one year 14 months actually. Two weeks ago he dumped me, he said that he loved me very much and that i deserved someone better. I was so upset I wasn’t expecting this at all. He told me that he wanted to be alone and free for the rest of his life, I responded that he couldn’t really want to be alone forever.

Continue reading Scared of Commitment

Dear Queen of Hearts, I have a major and strange problem with myself in my relationship. I have always been a pretty emotional person. It all started with my childhood. I would cry all of the time.

Continue reading Feeling Like A Child

Dear Queenie, for four months I have been working my first real job out of college. The hours are terribly long, especially compared to my boyfriend who is a substitute teacher waiting on his orders from the army.

Continue reading Lacking Commitment

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. We both went to the same school and lived together and had wonderful times together. Well, last summer he has to move 6 hours away for a job while i had to stay put to finish school.

Continue reading Long Distance Relationship

OK see their is this guy that i am with right now and i really really like him and right now i don’t know if he feels the same way see i have been with him for two weeks and his mom got me to move in with them and i did and now he is acting all mean like to me and i don’t know what to do so if you can please help me thank you so much if you can.

Continue reading Too Much Way Too Soon

I met this guy about 5 years ago and we really had this connection, but just could never get together. I really think he felt the connection as much as me, but my problem is I haven’t seen this guy in about 3 years and I still think about him all the time.

Continue reading Obsession Or Love?

I recently started dating one of my best friends. She is a lovely person who I have been through a lot with but she has always had the tendency to be very moody and temperamental.

Continue reading From Friends To Lovers

Me (21) and my boyfriend (23) have been dating for about 4 1/2 months.. we basically lived together and we were always together 24-7. he always talked about marrying me and having kids with me and all these wonderful things.

Continue reading He Needs Space

Dear Queenie, I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly a year now. Recently, she got herself into a bind and needed a place to stay, so I offered her to stay here for a few weeks.

Continue reading Selfish Live-In

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years. It has been a long distance relationship for most of that time, although we have had periods where we’ve spent up to 5 months together.

Continue reading Wait For Him To Be Ready?

Ok.. Been seeing this women for a little over 6 months. She says she loves me but won’t sleep with me… I must admit, I have NEVER waited this long for anyone.. Not even for ex’s that I was madly in love with.

Continue reading Doesn’t Want to Hurt Her

Queenie, I’m 42 and my boyfriend of two years is 44. We both have kids and his 18-year old daughter has treated me with such disrespect for about a year and a half. Her Dad (my boyfriend) will not insist she apologize or discipline her so her behavior has gotten progressively worse. We do not live together.

Continue reading Boyfriend’s Daughter Disrespectful

Dear Queenie, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and we have been engaged for 1 year. Everything was great in the beginning, he was affectionate and I fell for him very quickly but lately he has changed.

Continue reading Does He Still Care?

I’m not one for asking for advise usually. I have my closest friend of well over ten years dropping me for her work buddies. Who i cant stand. I have tried to get along with them but it all came to a head one evening.

Continue reading Friendship Over?

Hi, i am looking for specific relationship advice. I just got engaged to my fiance, and I am begining to find out more and more specific information about her relationship history. She’s been with a lot of guys, from my point of veiw anyways.

Continue reading Worried About Her Sexual History

Confused and don’t know what to do. I am a 23 year old with a 25 year old boyfriend who is constantly accusing me of cheating on him. Since we have been together I have never cheated on him.

Continue reading Jealous Boyfriend

I am back together with my ex-boyfriend (we’ve been broken up for over 3 years now), and he went away to school about a week after we got back together. I don’t expect THAT much but I DO enjoy talking to him on a nightly basis. I believe that is what is needed in a long-distance relationship: communnication.

Continue reading Nightly Phone Calls

My boyfriend and I have moved into a house, it is his old family home which he bought from his parents who have moved just accross the road. I am very unhappy there but he loves the house and won’t even consider moving.

Continue reading Unhappy in his new home

My boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years. Im his first relationship and hes my 4 long term relationship. About a year ago i had mentioned moving in together since im ready and it would be more convieniant since he lives 30 min away.

Continue reading Not ready to live together

I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months and I have realized that over these months it is like he does not want to spend any time with me. I almost feel that he goes out of his way not to spend any time with me.

Continue reading Not Spending Enough Time Together

I have been dating this guy for 1 yr. He has told me he needs some space. He says he still wants to be with me we just see too much of eachother (4-5 dys wk.) What type of relationship can you have 1-2 dys a wk?

Continue reading He Needs Space

Dear Queenie, I am struggling to accept the fact that the man I am dating has worked at a strip club and dated only strippers his entire life. He is a very smart, loving man and has never had a good girl, I am wrong for being down on myself for liking this man?

Continue reading Strip Clubs