Well let me begin by thanking you for your advice ….. now to the questions …. and let me begin by saying: I am seperated from my wife and have been for months. I have been on a new job for over a year, and while working have meet and fell in love with one of our dept. heads.
Author: Queenie
Her BF’s Stressed
Well you see, my b/f is always this loving sentimental person around me and the last few days he’s been distant towards me, I know he’s stressing out about work, because he works construction with his father… but he’s been acting different towards me…
Violent Boyfriend
I am very concerned about my daughter who’s 17 and been dating a 19 years old boy for over a year now. He’s been always sweet and polite with everyone, till recently, when he got very possesive of my daughter.
Too Sexy
“My boyfriend has always had woman liking him and he knows he could get any woman he wants. What can i do for him to like me more than any other woman he has ever liked??? Please help me. I have liked him since we were younger and I feel that he is the one for me. Thanks,” Sexy Gal
Web Romance?
“I have been chatting with this great guy for almost two months and we talk over the net everyday. He tells me he’s fallen in love with me and I fell for that. The problem is that we’re far away from each other… different countries but we have the same nationality. I know it’s quite impossible for our relationship to work but I’m hoping that it could.
Can They Be Friends?
“My girlfriend of 3 years just recently drop the news that she wanted a break up, her reason behind it was that she needed space and time for herself. We haven’t seen each other for over a week and recently we got together and went out as a group with a couple of friends, I tried to dance with her and talk as friends should, but she keeps on rejecting me when we are in public, but when we talk on the phone she is very interested in me.
Older Than He Said He Was
I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We have known each other for two years. We knew each other from a chat room. We then met and fall in love. Not long after he went to UK and work. He calls me everyday and will buy gifts for me and sometime support me financially. We have planned to settle down and have our own family and I am planning to go to UK to meet him up and spend my time with him.
Court Martial?
About a month ago, I confimed that my wife was indeed invloved with a man that was part of her past prior to our marriage. We are both activated reservists, serving in different locations and this man was assigned to her unit.
Office Flirt?
I found out that a married woman from my lover of 7 years office has been leaving “flitatious” messages on his cell phone. He insists its all about work, but my gut says otherwise. How should I handle this? — Tara
Cheating?
Queenie, this may be a tough one, but nobody else can seem to help. I am married and I have been for almost four and a half years. I was dating him for two years before we got married. He used to be addicted to porn and it made our sex life seem non-existant. Many times we talked about it and many times he said he wanted to change it.
Sneaking Around on His Wife
I have had this friend for 14 years, he dated my best friend in High School, he lived with me and my husband for awhile, he was the best man in my wedding 10 years ago, and my husband, at the time, was his best man. He married a girl that none of us knew.
GF Angry at Being Dumped
Hi Queenie, two days ago I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 years. It was and is the most painful thing I’ve ever been through (and I’ve been through the deaths of most of my family)…I love her more than I’ve loved anyone in my life.
She Was in the Next Room
I just found out that my fience of six years and the father of my three year old has cheated on me with more than twenty girls, one nite it was with three strippers. he has also informed me that most of the time i was right in the next room.
Cheated with Close Friend
My now husband just told me he cheated on me with a close friend. The problem is we were dating at the time and I was also pregnant and he knew it. But they kept on until they finally decided to quit. He told me the reason was that he missed the beginning of a relationship feeling.
Is He Cheating with his Ex?
I have been with my current boyfriend, officially, for 5 months. Before that he was cheating on his last girlfriend, of 2 years, with me. I now live with him because I had a fire in my condo, so I moved in with him. I am worried about his relationship with his ex-girlfriend.
Fights Turning Physical
I have been a my boyfriend for 3 years and we recently got engaged. We get along great most of the time but we don’t have disagreements very well. He usually flies off the handle because I can just leave an issue alone and sleep on it for awhile. Our fights have sometimes gotten physical.
Porn Problem
Dear Queenie, Ive been with my boyfriend for six years and when were at home we argu because he looks at porn and play’s porn games that you interact with by moving the mouse around.
Commitment Phobe
Ok, you are going to hate me allready. I am a commitment phobe. I’ve never been in a serious relationship before. It just turns my stomach to think about being with someone permantly and losing my freedom. I tend to keep my relationships very casual, brief and meaningless. But just recently I met someone, who I really really like.
He Needed ‘Space’
Recently my boyfriend decided that he needed some space. We have been dating for 3 and a half years. We have talked about marriage and having kids. I really thought that we would spend the rest of our lives together. I recently found out that I was pregnant. I told him and he was shocked.
Inquiring Minds Want to Know
I have a girlfriend who got engaged on the fouth date and she was complaining that her guy was fat, and he talked too much, and that she hated his clothes, but she loved him and they connected. They got married a year later and she complained about his appearance up to the day they got married.
Broken Engagement
I recently was let go by my girlfriend. We were engaged and I broke it off because I didn’t feel like she was the right one for me. Then she convinced me to move back in with her and things went back very quickly to the way they were.
Regaining Trust
hello, great web site! i was wondering if you could tell me how to gain someones trust back if it has been lost? Also, when an ex of 3 yrs says he needs “time” to see if he wants to trust me again… should i call him daliy and remind him i am still there waiting or let him call the shots…please help. Thank you! — Stephanie
Webcam Antics
In the past i have caught my boyfriend showing his cock on webcam to girls, i forgave him and told him i forgiv him, and we made a deal for him to be less flirty and quit with the webcam, and for me to be less susbishous of him.
Which One Should She Choose?
Dear Queenie, I have been in a long distance relationship since last year. My boyfriend & i plan on moving in together and getting married. I love him a lot, but he works a lot and when i go visit him, he will come see me after working and will stay with me until he has to work again.
Married for the Wrong Reason
I am 23 years old and I married a man that at first I didn’t love. I had feelings for him and cared for him, but I just wasn’t head over heels for him. I married him for stability and to offer my five year old daughter a family.
Which One Should She Choose?
About 4 years ago I was friends with this guy, we will call him TOM who liked me and after a while I liked him too, so we started dating. This is one of those relationships where its almost eerie how naturally you fall together. We actually broke up for about a week but then got back together.
Not Enough Sex
Dear Queenie, I just celebrated my one year anniversary with my girlfriend. We get along just great – we don’t really argue or fight. We are very considerate of each other’s feelings. To get to the point… in my opinion, we don’t have sex as often as i would like.
Can’t Forget
Dear Queenie, I broke up with my live-in boyfriend more then 8 months ago and we haven’t spoken since. Even though he is a cheating jerk, I still miss him and I cry almost everyday. I even dream about him.
An Emotional Threesome
I was dating this girl off and on some time back, but she eventually went back to her old boyfriend. Now we have started talking again, and her and her boyfriend have been fighting allot lately. To the point where she comes to me crying, but at the same time saying that she loves him and she wishes she didn’t.
Will She Make a Wrong Decision?
Hello. I am recently seperated with a four year old child. My husband and I have been together for seven years. I love him very much but we have differant religous and moral views. He doesn’t seem to want to keep a REAL job and I stress out over all the household bills and upkeep while working a full time job.
Should She Tell?
I need to know if I should tell my boyfriend that I had sex with his close friend. It was a huge mistake. We were both drunk and otherwise impaired, and during and afterward, I cried and freaked out about the fact that it was happening. I did not initiate it, but I didn’t stop it, either. I went along.
His wife has a female lover
Yo, check this out, Queen. I’m at home relaxing and my wife comes in and she had a female friend with her, but this female friend doesn’t dress like a female she looks like a guy, right. I knew something was up, so I got her friend alone and we talked, come to find out they’re sleeping together. I confront my wife and she tells me that she is sleeping with this girl but she’s just having fun and I should understand that she wants to be with me and blaa blaa blaa blaa.
He’s jealous of her ex
I have this man that I am engaged to since dec. I have two kids from a previous relationship. My future husband is very jealous over my kids dad. Me and my kids dad are only friends. but my future husband can not understand that there is nothing between me and the father of my kids.
Who should she keep?
I am 21 years of age. I have a boyfriend of almost a year. I cheated on him 5 months ago with my childhood as well as family friend. My boyfriend loves me so much because he still accepted me after he found out what had happened between me and my childhood friend and also my past.
The sexual spark is gone
I have been dating a younger (much younger) man for the last ten years. He still seems just as much in love with me as ever. He has been there for me through many crises.
He’s scared she’ll cheat again
I started dating a guy I had been friends with for two years. We were exactly alike in our personalities and the way we handled relationships; we never had real relationships or even fallen in love. We just played with people, only getting what we wanted.
Lying about getting a divorce?
Dear Queenie, I’m really confused!! I’ve been dating a man for a year now, who is supposed to be getting a divorce. It’s going on two years now. When I ask him about it, he gets frustrated and insists that because of the children, taxes, etc… that it is taking longer. Yet he says he does not know what’s curranty going on and can not tell me when it will be final.
She loves him as a friend
Hi i am not sure if youve answered a question or problem like this but here it goes. there is a girl that i love. we have not been “going out” for about 3 months but remain friends and even lovers. the only problem i have is that she has said that she doesn’t love me as per say a boyfriend but more a friend and has since gotten with her ex whom treated her like dirt and has a girlfriend which she knows about.