Regaining Trust

hello, great web site! i was wondering if you could tell me how to gain someones trust back if it has been lost? Also, when an ex of 3 yrs says he needs “time” to see if he wants to trust me again… should i call him daliy and remind him i am still there waiting or let him call the shots…please help. Thank you! — Stephanie


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Stephanie, when you’re the one who betrayed their trust, they become the one who calls the shots. Don’t call him daily because until he has enough time away from you, those calls are putting him back at square one in his attempts to “forgive and forget.” Stop calling, stop making any contact. Don’t wait by the phone for his call. Make a life for yourself and if the two of you are “meant to be” it will happen. — Queenie