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My high school sweetheart and I starting dating again about 3 years ago–both divorced. We see each other almost every day: dinner, movies, trips, events etc. I love her completely and date no others. Our sex life is awesome. The past year and half or so, an old boy friend she dated about 10 years ago–after her divorce–started calling her. Continue reading →

Hey Queenie!! I hope all is well with you!! I just wanted to stop by and give you an update! I did call my MM to give him my condolences about his dad passing (I would have done the same for any other co-worker as well) and he said that it meant alot to him. We talked briefly, and both realized (again) that had we continued it would have been a total disaster. He also realized what he has in his relationship with his wife and is even more appreciative of her now (if that’s possible?)  Continue reading →

Just found out there is a women who is coming on to my bf. he has told her he wants to only be friends because he is with me. but she is trying to get him to call her. telling him to call when i am a sleep or go out so she can tell him what she wants to do to him. sending him pic of her boobs and storys of them having sex and asking him to call her and meet her. Continue reading →

Well since you give yourself so little credit…. Had you ACTUALLY listended to me instead of judging me, you would have seen that your advice did play a part in the final decision. Not all affairs end up on the dark side. Continue reading →

Hi. First off let me say thank you again. I appreciate your advice!!! Now (please) let me continue with my saga: First, I just want to clear the air, I have NEVER visioned myself as the other woman, nor do we enjoy being in this situation. We fully understand the circumstances and atleast I know that right now, it IS an emotional affair. I am sure he has no idea what an emotional affair is. But I WILL educate him the next time I see him!!! Continue reading →

Hey Queenie: Thanks for the quick reply and the great advice!! I took it to heart!!! I broke up with him the next time I saw him (last Friday night), after we both agonized over it for hours. We talked about everything that we felt was so right but we knew was so wrong!!! We agreed that it was best, for both of us (and everyone involved). When I left him that night to go home, I could not help but to feel absolutely devastated. I felt like I had been dating this man for 10 years and I did not understand why I was so distraught? But none the less, we agreed to only talk about work, while at work on work phones. And that was it!!! Continue reading →

Dear Queenie, I have read a large number of your answers concerning this topic, but I have been unable to find any situation similar enough to my own to feel that my question was answered. I hope that you will not find this email too long to post, because a response would mean the world to me. I do not have friends who I can confide in. My boyfriend is my best friend, and I have not talked to him about this, for reasons which will become obvious. Continue reading →