Dear Queenie: Should I just leave? About 5 months ago I cheated on my wife through her so called womans intuition she put 2&2 together and found out. Now she just can drop it every now and again out of the clear blue she gos off about it.
I really don’t even know why I did it the person who is pure trash has gone out of her way to harass my wife and me because she is so in love with me & my wife cannot just move on. I guess this marriage is just plain over and I should just move on why should I have to be constantly reassuring her that I made a mistake and that it wont happen again.
I think she my need help she is depressed and says its because she is dead. Thanks.
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I suppose leaving your wife because she is depressed that you cheated on her with someone who is harassing the two of you because she is so in love with you would definitely be the best way to put this all behind you. After all, you’re ready to forget it ever happened and if she can’t put it behind her why stay around, right?
Look, you cheated. You figure since you’ve ended the affair that should be good enough for your wife, right? Wrong. You have absolutely no concept of how much you hurt her with your betrayal nor do you have any concept of how long it will take for her to trust you again.
If your girlfriend wasn’t still in the picture trying to get you back (is that why you’re thinking of leaving your wife?) it might be a little less time for your wife to move past this, but with loser doing her harassment thing your wife has a constant reminder of your affair. How can you possibly expect her to “just get over it”? — Queenie