Cheating With ‘Just A Woman’

I checked my boyfriends phone and I found messages from him and his friend talking about a Czech girl… my boyfriend stated that she tried to kiss him last night and that she tried to take her home and that she had been buying him drinks all night. His friend encourages him to sleep with her and said that its just a woman…. I am really worried about this what can I do?

If your boyfriend is going to cheat, there’s not much you can do to prevent him from cheating. You can’t control another person but you can make decisions for yourself.

If it were me I probably wouldn’t have been looking at my boyfriend’s messages on his phone. But, if I had, I would probably ask him about them and whether I should trust him not to cheat on me. If he said he wouldn’t cheat, I would probably trust that he was telling the truth. If I found out later that he lied to me, I would probably kick his butt to the curb. ~ Queenie