My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. I really don’t get why. he tells me it is because he doesn’t know himslef and he needs to go find himself. then the next thing i know he tells me that he isn’t sure if i am the one. i don’t want to get married quite yet. not for a couple of years.
I have told him that and i have never pressured him either. so i don’t get that. the week before he actually broke up with me we had a break because he said he needed one. so i let him have one. then i got frustrated with him because i didn’t get what was going on. then i fought with him.
I apologised this las week because i didn’t know that was what was frustrating him. but i never pressured him into talking about anything he didn’t want to talk about. so my question is, should i just leave him alone and wait till he calls me? our last conversation was a good one so should i just wait till he snapps out of it? — sophia
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Sophia, when someone breaks up with you it means they aren’t planning on coming back the next day to pick up where they left off. It means they are gone for as long as it takes, maybe even forever.
Maybe you don’t want to get married for a couple of years but you want him to be there when you want him to be there which is being tied down in a committed relationship which he isn’t ready for right now and may never be ready for with you. How much plainer can he get?
Yes! Leave him alone. Get on with your life, let him get on with his. If yours is a love that is “meant to be” the two of you will reunite. If you push it you’ll just push him farther and farther away. — Queenie