I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We have known each other for two years. We knew each other from a chat room. We then met and fall in love. Not long after he went to UK and work. He calls me everyday and will buy gifts for me and sometime support me financially. We have planned to settle down and have our own family and I am planning to go to UK to meet him up and spend my time with him.
All of the sudden the night mare came, he told me he is 43 instead of 37 years old. He told me that he is a divorced man with no kids, all the while he said he was single. I was so frustrated with him and do not know what to do. He told me that he did not reallise that he is so in love with me and he always want to tell me the truth but he does not know how to tell me. He is too afraid to loose me!
I was hurt, after 2 years then only I know the truth. At his age he has no planning for his future and he is a big spender. Now he is willing to send me money and let me be the planner. Shall I give him a chance to make our dream comes true.” — Confused
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Confused, there are probably more people falsifying facts about their lives than there are people telling the truth in Internet chat rooms. He embellished the truth and subtracted 6 years from his age. No biggie. He said he was single instead of divorced. At 43, that makes more sense. Hopefully he’s telling the truth about not having children.
You enjoy what he provides for you so get over the 6 years and the divorce or hold it over his head and end the relationship and find someone who has never embellished details to make themselves look better. You’ll be looking a long time. — Queenie