It was quite a while ago but i saw a few scratch marks on my bfs back and i cant remember what they look like so please dont ask! has he maybe cheated or possibly just scratched his back.
Also there was another case about seven months before this he went to the park with a friend and had his phone switched off all day because he knew id be annoyed that he went and didnt tell me, as i was pregnant at the time and wouldnt have been able to go on anything. the next day i noticed a bite mark on the upper inside of his thigh (with teethmarks).
He had tld me before this him and his friend had a fight on the way back from the theme park as they had both had a drink and started argueing, apparently he had the boy in a headlock on the floor and the boy had bitten his leg to get out of it.
I really would like to believe he hasnt cheated as we have been together three years and have a child i love him dearly. I just cant get the thought out my head he MIGHT of though u know? We are thinking about relationship councelling but he is starting to get annoyed with me keep accusing him and has said he has a concious and wishes he could prove he has never been unfaithful. How can I build up trust again?
Have you actually ever caught him cheating or are these two instances the only times you have felt that he might have cheated? If you have no absolute proof of cheating, these two instances are not strong enough, in my opinion, to lose trust in him.
Accusing someone of cheating and continually harping on it is a sure way to push someone into cheating. If they’re paying the price already, what more do they have to lose by actually doing the deed?
Stop accusing him! Get into counseling! If you love this man and want him in you and your child’s life, focus on positive aspects of this relationship and let go of your fears that he is cheating.
You’re wasting time by focusing on something that may not be happening. Time will tell whether or not this is a good relationship. Get counseling so you can make it the best it can be. ~ Queenie