I brook up with my boyfriend of three years because of family issues and the fact that he hurt me. I am now seeing a man who is seven years younger than me. He has a good head on his shoulders and he claims that he is in love with me.
After I dated him for a few months I realized that there was hope since I didn’t have any while I was in the three year ralationship.
After I left my ex for about three months he realized how much he loved me and how much he hurt me. When he called me I didn’t know what to say to him so I agreed to meet with him and that is when he starting telling how much I meant to him and how bad he wants me back.
I started to have feelings for him but I don’t love him as much as I used to because something inside of me does not allow it.
I cannot make up my mind about who I want to be with. Because I have feelings for both of them. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
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As long as you have such strong feelings for both men, you shouldn’t be trying to be in an exclusive relationship with either of them. You need time away from serious commitment to decide what and who is best for you. — Queenie