I am 26 and have been dating my girfriend for 3 months i think i have a problem more with myself than her; she is very traditional, cultural and is still a virgin (she is 20 yrs old) that is not my problem actually that is something i love.
I see her every day talk to her every day, the thing is that i dont know if i am being too much? i do love her and i have told her that and we have talked about marriage which i have no problem with, my problem comes when i dont talk to her during the day i think too much i feel this urge to call her, my heart beats higher.
i dont want to overdue it though and drive her away, i dont want to be possesive and scare her, we have a great communication and we have talked about this, which she says that she does not mind me calling her all the time. but somehow i get the feeling that sometimes im too much, like telling her how much i care for her, how beautiful she is i compliment her all the time, to which she doesnt do much, but once in a while, i do feel she loves me because she has even talked about marriage with me too and she says that she just does not want to open herself to a fall.
help me i dont know if im doing too much or am expecting too much of her?? or what?? — Pete
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Pete, sometimes too much enthusiasm can indeed be too much. It is wonderful that you love her and want to tell her how much she means to you but just the fact you are questioning if you’re doing too much probably means you are.
Three months is not a long time for a relationship. You’re still in the early stages and she may feel overwhelmed by the amount of attention you are spending on her. And, believe it or not, even in the most passionate relationships, a little time away does make the heart grow fonder.
Slow down, give her a little breathing room, and take some time for yourself, also. If this is true love, let there be enough space for it to grow naturally. — Queenie