One of my closest friends had a crush on a mutual friend of ours for a few months, but never did anything about it. They talked on the phone occasionally, however she never told him of her feelings. In the meantime I was becoming more and more attracted to him.
Well last night the three of us and two other friends all went out for dinner and drinks. We all drank more than we should have and I ended up sleeping with him. She doesn’t know that i slept with him, but she could tell that something was going on.
Now she is really upset with me and I feel awful. I have apologized over and over, but I can’t get over how badly I have treated a good friend. Is there anything I can do to make it up to her? — Regretful
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Your friend doesn’t own this man just because she has a “crush” on him and I don’t see why you should feel badly about connecting with him as long as you didn’t do something underhanded in the process.
She liked him but she didn’t make a move on him. Did she expect him to read her mind? Obviously he didn’t have the same feelings or he would have asked her out. I think you should stop apologizing. You did nothing wrong. — Queenie