I feel as if I do not love my husband anymore. I am wanting so bad to live alone. He is a good person and I feel that it would be better for us to be friends. I think he should move out on good terms because if we continue to be together, I know that I will soon leave myself on bad terms. please give me some advice. Thanks. — Katie
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Katie, before you do something that’s going to destroy your marriage and really harm your husband you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and see if he will get into couples therapy with you.
Marriage isn’t the type of deal where you stay until you get bored and then you leave. It’s a lifetime commitment type of deal and you can’t expect your husband to be as casual about ending this as you are.
It’s very difficult for a husband or wife to remain “friends” when their spouse decides they’d rather not be married any more. — Queenie