I haven’t dated in over four years. I finally found a man I’m interested in, but when I talk to him on the phone or in person I get all tonge tied. I feel like I’m a boring person. I don’t do this with other man, just him. What can I do to get past this, before I ruin it. Thanks
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Apparently you’re too serious about this guy to be thinking straight when you talk to him. First of all, slow down. You’re not even going to get to first base if you don’t slow down and turn on the charm.
Are you trying to come up with excellent conversation to make him see what a great person you are? Forget about that. Talk about the latest news, ask him about movies or television shows he might have seen. Ask him for his opinion on recent events. Get him talking and you listen.
Relax. Don’t try to force anything. — Queenie