I have always believed in love at first sight, and when I saw this guy (we’ll call him Harry), when I saw Harry two nights ago I fell in love immediately. My whole being longed to be with his. I’ve never ever felt the way seeing him made me feel… I can’t even describe it. I feel connected to him, and almost like I know him (and I definitely do not).
Also, he’s Australian, and he’s a circus performer. I’ve always been obsessed with Australia, and the circus has always fascinated me. Now going in to this, I was not expecting to find a soul mate or anything. Do you think it is possible he is my soulmate? Also, we’ve never spoken before, and I don’t know how to start talking to him.
Is it ridiculous to be ‘in love’ with someone who may not know you exist? He was touring with a circus when he came here, so he’s not even in the area anymore. What do I do? He’s been on my mind constantly all the time. I get SO happy just thinking about him. Please help me! Thank you.
You do know that your request reads like a very bad attempt to fool Queenie, don’t you? I’m feeling generous today, so, let’s give you the benefit of the doubt and answer this as though your inquiry is legimate.
First, do I believe you’re ‘in love’ with this circus performer you haven’t spoken to, who you saw performing a couple nights ago, and who has already left town (and maybe the country) taking your ‘heart’ with him?
If you believe in love at first sight whether or not the other person feels anything whatsoever or even knows you exist, then that’s what you believe. Do I think there’s a possible future for the two of you? Not very likely if the two of you never actually meet. Even then he would have to feel the same.
No, I don’t think he is your soul mate. I think people fall ‘in lust at first sight’ all the time and since your ‘whole being longed to be with his’ I’d say your lust buttons really got pushed when the circus came to town. Something else to think about: If he’s that desirable, do you really think he isn’t already in a relationship or two?
There’s nothing wrong with fantasizing about someone you’ve never actually met and probably never will meet. If it becomes an obsession, then there’s a real problem.
JMHO. ~ Queenie