I have been with this guy for 4yrs recently he disappears for days then he comes home he as been at his moms but he doesn’t even want to help with the bills that have been adding up what shuld i be thinking and what should i do
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If it were me, I’d be thinking we had a very big problem and I’d start making a back-up plan for life without him. Maybe he isn’t planning on leaving, but disappearing for days and not caring whether the bills are paid tells me he’s losing interest. As far as the bills, if you have legal responsibility for them, you’ll have to pay when you can and start cutting back where you need to.
Just my opinion. ~ Queenie