I fallen in love with a married man, whose wife cheats with internet lovers every day, after 4 years of declaring our undying love, still separate by OCEANS, Tell me is it worth it? Am I wasting my time? He is so sincere when he talks to me, I don’t think he has the guts to leave her as she always says she can kill herself. Is there any future for us? His Christian belief is to be positive. I am the negative side?
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In my opinion this man is the negative side of your life. He’s a married man. It doesn’t matter what kind of a person his wife is or isn’t, he’s still married. Do you believe in the marriage vows? Obviously this man with his Christian belief does not. Is that the type of man you want to keep waiting for?
What difference is there between his cheating and hers? It doesn’t matter that she (according to him) is cheating with many lovers or just one. Cheating is cheating. And he has been cheating with you for over 4 years!
It’s easy to be sincere when keeping an affair partner on the hook. It’s easy to make up every type of reason why the two of you can’t be together, or why you should keep waiting, regardless of what is truth or what is fiction. Words are very easy. Actions are not. He’s not putting his “undying love” into action, he’s giving you meaningless words that keep you dangling.
Is it worth it? Not by my measure. Are you wasting your time? The most precious thing we are unable to buy more of is time–which you are spending in an affair that has no future for you. ~ Queenie