I told him I loved him when I was very intoxicated and he dumped me the next day….I was very shocked and hurt we hadnt been going out for very long and he cited underlying issues along with…..the fact he didnt want to use me.
I had been very stressed out and had been coming through an indecsisive period in my life as well as being very upset….stress induced with work and family life….he decided this quickly and I dont know what to do…I waned to keep things the way they were and I didnt expect anyhting from him more than being boyfreind and girlfreind….what can I do — Ghost
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Ghost, when you tell a guy you love him, particularly when the two of you haven’t been dating very long, all he can see is the trap of marriage looming in front of him. Doing it while intoxicated doesn’t help the situation.
There isn’t anything you can do to get him back at this point. He doesn’t want to establish a relationship with you and that’s how he reads your declaration of love. Stop trying to make something out of nothing.
Back off, leave him alone. If there is a possibility of something between the two of you in the future it will only happen if you walk away and get your own life going without involving him in it. — Queenie