Within the past year I rekindled a friendship with an ex boyfriend and within a few months we started having sex and spending alot of time together. Its like we were never apart. He has told me that he isn’t ready for a relationship ok in my mind what is two best friends sleeping with each other isn’t that a relationship.
How long do I wait or should I even try to do this again the reason we broke up before is because he was drinkig heavily and he is two years sober.
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Maybe in your mind having sex with someone is being in a real relationship but in his mind it’s just having sex. He told you he isn’t ready for a relationship, and you should believe him. A lot of guys wouldn’t be so honest because they’d fear the sex would stop without promises of some type of future commitment.
As far as whether or not you should continue the relationship and for how long… that’s up to you. Somehow I doubt things will change as long as the sex has no strings attached. And the guy he is now, sober, is not the same guy he was when he was drunk. ~ Queenie