I have been seeing this guy for about two and a half months now. the problem is he is engaged to get married in august of this year. his fiance lives in another state., so he and i are together all of the time except for when she comes into town, even then he manages to call me and see at work.
i have deep feelings for this guy, i want him to be my man. is there any advice for me. he says he is not in love with her, he’s only marrying her because the plans have been made and he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings. — Tara
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Tara, he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings but he doesn’t mind cheating on her? And he doesn’t mind considering adultery once he’s married to her? And you’re willing to stay with him? And take the bits and pieces that he throws you while she gets the big wedding and the legal status and his name?
This guy’s a hound. If you want to wake up covered in fleas, buy his story. Otherwise, walk away and let him find someone else to cheat on his girlfriend with — he has a smooth line and probably uses it quite a bit. This guy’s a real loser. You can do better. — Queenie