Hi, I am from India. I fell in love with this guy the moment i saw him. I approached him and he agreed. We have been together for more than 3 months. I saw no problems except that he never called much. It was usually me who called. He spoke about our future together first. Now al of a sudden he asked for a break because he needed to think about where we are headed.
he said he needed about 10-15 days. i said i wudnt cal till he did. its 20 days now and he hasnt called. what do i do? i love him a lot and i miss him like hell. i cant concentrate on anything at al.
Not every relationship has a future. You made the first move and he didn’t have as much enthusiasm for the relationship as you did or he would have being doing most of the calling. When he asked for a break to think about where you are headed, I have a feeling the answer for him was “nowhere”.
Next time let the man do the chasing and don’t be so quick to try to make a future with him. Getting too serious too fast can chase off most men. That’s just my opinion, of course ~ Queenie