I am very confused. my husband and i had some problems. he tried to commit suicide. and then he tried to make me help him of course i refused. then he turned it around and said fine were both going to die and a bunch of bad things took place and he went to jail and from there they sent him to the hospital.
I have not seen him since that awful night. it has been 5 months. i miss him terribly. i still love him and want to continue our marriage. trouble is he has dissappeared. not totally though he leaves messages at my place of employment. silly messages like ill be there for my stuff in two days which never came and the latest was he told the co worker to remind me that we are still married. like i could forget.
i need to know if i should try to forget him and move on if so how or what steps i should take to get him back in my life. i really dont want to move on. i dont feel i can this is my second marriage and our one year anniversary was just last month. help please. thank you very much for even reading my whiny letter.” — Amy
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Amy, I cannot advise you. It sounds as though the two of you need professional counseling to sort things out — does your husband have a counselor? Have you been informed of his status and progress? Please seek legal and/or professional guidance and good luck. — Queenie