I’ve shared a special friendship with a man for 5 years now. We see life through the same eyes, and complete each other’s thoughts. We were both hurt in the past and terrified of commitment, but yet it seems special.
I can’t imagine my life with anyone except him. How can I tell if he thinks of me as lovingly as I think of him, and is it worth risking, or am I just his “buddy” that he holds close to his heart? Thanks! — Jill
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Jill, if the two of you have such a special relationship then you should be able to ask him if he considers you a friend or more. After five years, it’s really time to know where this relationship is heading or if it isn’t going any further. No matter how much either one of you was hurt by a prior relationship, you shouldn’t take it out on each other. — Queenie