Right, I have this situation that obsesses me, keeping me impatient and some advise actually told me to be patient with it right now.
I’ve had thoughts about the same person for months, since we’ve had some romantic feelings towards each other and renewed love a coupple of times since when we met years ago, getting more and more intense now and looks “just a little” promising.
The dark side is, that we don’t contact each other. She will move to the city I live in soon, but I will be moving 3 months after. I have decided to hold on to her after I move, coming to see her every now and then if we were to be boyfriend and girlfriend in the future.
For the record, she is Capricorn, hard working and uncommunative when feeling down (with life path number 9), and I am Gemini, broadening my horisonts and sharp-tounged (life path 3). Just so you can understand there’s some issues in the match. I think in fate-numbers mine is 1 and hers is 3.
The reason i can’t get myself to contact her right now as she is away, is that i sometimes won’t risk hurting others (or myself), making a stand. And I am a 50/50 chance, since she still hasn’t get rid of the man she dated before she met me. (he lives down where she’s living right now).
I want to get rid of the mystery and know if it is okay to contact her, and i wanna know how to keep her interested till she have time for me. I can’t ask her too many questions about herself as she would perhaps get freaked out.
I’m having a difficult time following your story. I can’t tell if the two of you have been lovers, are lovers, might become lovers in the future, or are just casual friends with you trying to turn it into more. Regardless, you’ll never know where this can go without asking her directly. Do it. Listen to what she says. If she has interest in being in a relationship with you, then you have your answer. If she isn’t, you have the answer you don’t want but you can let go of thinking about her and move on.