I guess what I am wanting to know is what should I do? I’ve been in a relationship with this man for about a year and had many good times with him, although one night we had been drinking and things got out of control. He hit me! I kicked him out and he moved to California.
I’ve recently went out to visit him, he payed for all fees and had a really good time while I was out there. Before going I wasn’t sure if I had the same feelings I had for him before but after going I relized that I still had those same feeling.
I wanna forgive him for what he has done and I wanna start my life with this man again. I do gotta say before all the drama that night about 1 month before he had asked me to marry him and I said yes.
We’ll after going to see him he wants to come back to Arizona and work things out and when I say come back I’m talking about in a week..I hear my friends out and what they have to say but some of there advice just makes me feel like they don’t want me to be with him cause I won’t be free and be able to party with them..
Please I can take all the advice from somebody that doesn’t know me and has no clue what type of person I am. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.
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I’d much prefer to think your friends perhaps are looking at this situation with less emotion than you are and maybe see that this man might not be the best for you. However, it is your life and not theirs so it must be your decision and not theirs as to whether you try to put this relationship back together.
Can you perhaps learn from your mistake? Drinking to excess is foolish. Hitting is never warranted. If you love him and think this won’t happen again, forgive and move forward. If it does happen again, you’ll know this wasn’t such a good idea. Good luck. — Queenie