A close male friend of mine who i think is the most gorgeous man in the world (have harboured a secret admiration/crush on him for quite a few years, although we were both in long term relationships and maintained a good freindship) has told me that he is interested.
Our respective best friends got married last night after a 10 year relationship. The 4 of us have spent countless hours hanging out and its always perfect. Only two of them were a couple and the two of us were just friends. Now, this guy has told me he is interested in more than just a friendship – which i guess i have felt was on the cards for a little while now.
My issue is this – he is a gorgeous man and can have (and does have) any woman he chooses. He is 28 and after playing he said he just wants to find someone he is comfortable with, that he respects and admires and who can let him be himeself and accept him for that. He says thats me. He says all the right things. Im just worried that his motivation is somewhat less than ideal . — Jess
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Jess, a player knows the right words to use on each woman he goes after. Is this gorgeous man looking for another conquest with you? What is your “gut” telling you?
If you have any doubts whatsoever, don’t let this relationship get physical. If he’s a player, he’ll keep trying and if he’s not a player you’ll eventually stop worrying about his motivation. — Queenie