I recently was let go by my girlfriend. We were engaged and I broke it off because I didn’t feel like she was the right one for me. Then she convinced me to move back in with her and things went back very quickly to the way they were.
Now, this time, she is the one who realized it and we agreed to go our separate ways. Only now, I have learned that only one night after our breakup she is seeing other people. This feeling of rejection and inadequacy is tearing me apart. I just want to feel like myself again. Any tips? — Marc
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Marc, are you disappointed that she’s not hiding out in a weepy heap at home? Would that make you feel better? You broke it up with her the first time and no doubt she went through quite a lot of tears that time. Getting back together only made the both of you realize that you’re not a great love match which is why you agreed to end it a second time.
She’s already cried enough and you don’t know that she isn’t grieving its end even when she seems to be having a great time with her friends. Let it go. It wasn’t right, you know that. Don’t try to make something more out of her actions. Move on. — Queenie