I have this man that I am engaged to since dec. I have two kids from a previous relationship. My future husband is very jealous over my kids dad. Me and my kids dad are only friends. but my future husband can not understand that there is nothing between me and the father of my kids.
Everytime I talk to my kids dad. He threatens me. like he is going to throw my belongings on the street. or he is going to call chilren services on me. or if i do not call or come to his house at a certain time he wiil throw me in jail for telephone harrassment.
He does anything to hurt me. he says he loves me and my kids. but i feel he does not. because it is like he is trying to hurt me and my kids. i love him and sometimes i feel we should not be together. but it is like i can not break from him because i am so in love with him please help me. — Yvette
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Yvette, your first responsibility is to your children. If this man you are planning on marrying is threating harm to them then you need to protect them from him. If he is threatening harm to you, then you need to protect yourself. It doesn’t matter why it does it, the fact he does it at all is a very, very bad sign of things to come.
The father of your children has a right to be included in their life, and they have a right to be included in his. All of you will have reason to make contact for the rest of your lives and anyone you might marry should understand that.
Marriage to this man will not make things better, it will make things much worse for all of you. Love isn’t supposed to hurt. — Queenie