Desperate please help, My boyfriend is in the millitary and currently overseas recently I cheated on him and had to tell him out of guilt and fear of him hearing from someone else.
I have never cheated before in any relationship and I feel awful for what I have done I cant stand the thought of losing him and dont know what to do to make things better. One minute he says we’ll be fine and the next he doesnt know if we’ll make it. Please help I’m deperate. — Jen
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Jen, I’m not sure why if you haven’t cheated on any guy before you had to chose this one to cheat on. Here’s a guy who is sent into war conditions who probably considered you the one comforting thing in his chaotic life at this point and then you have to not only cheat but then you have to tell him when he’s still in the middle of a war.
I don’t know if I’d be able to forgive you if I was him but maybe he has more forgiveness in him than I have in me. I can’t give you any magic words of advice. Either he’s willing to take a chance on you or he isn’t. Time will tell either way. — Queenie