My boyfriend but also my baby-daddy says i never keep promises sometime I do break promises but he have cheated on me at least 6 times and I have forgave him I love him and I really want to be with him, and he also think it’s ok if he can have female friends but I can’t have guy friends. what should I do. — Ashley
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Ashley, either the two of you are in a committed relationship or you’re not. That doesn’t mean you’re committed (sometimes) and he’s committed (sometimes). The two of you have a baby together, but do either of you understand how serious a responsibility that is? It sounds as though both of you are way too immature to be parents but since you have a child it’s time at least ONE of you grows up. That will probably have to be you.
Neither of you should have “friends” of the type you’re asking about. He puts you at risk for many diseases when he cheats on you and if you try to do the same you increase your risks. If he doesn’t want to settle down you need to kick him to the curb and make sure he’s legally obligated to share in the expenses for his child. — Queenie