Ive been having an affair with a married woman for over 10 years now. She keeps insisting that she will leave her husband of 16-years but ALWAYS comes up with creative excuses not to. I continue to wait at home alone for her while she spends most weekends and all holidays (some vacations) with him.
A week ago she told me she was pregnant for the first time with his child (8-months). I am devistated and dont know what to do.
She keeps calling me to tell me “she loves me”. But I seriously think she only wants me for emotional support and a little sex on the side now and then.
I am 45 with two grown children from a previous marriage and she is 38. I dont want to be involved with this child of her and her husband. HOW DO I GET OUT OF THIS TANGLED WEB I AM IN??? HELP! — Third Wheel
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You started this affair when you were 35. You are now 45. You’ve wasted a precious 10 years of your life waiting for an adulterous woman to leave her husband. Why?
There are plenty of single, available, virtuous women in this world. Women who would be good companions. Women who wouldn’t cheat on a relationship.
Run away, as fast as you can. This is an ugly habit you’ve developed. If you can’t do it on your own, get professional help. — Queenie