dear quennie i am in love with my ex partner who i have 2 children with aged 2 and 3 we were married and split up and we both had trust issues and argued she says that she no longer loves me but i am still madly in love with her and want to be with her and would do anyting to win her back
when i see her i just wanna hold her and tell her i love her so much i dont know what to do ar say to her to convince her that it can work again and im scared of not being with me again
she is a attractive girl and the love of my life i dont know what to do if she says no to being with me ever again and i dont know what the best way tpo be with her when around her if she says no to be with me please help as i dont know what to do in the worse case or if the best case we get back together im meeting her soon to talk to her and tell her how i feel but i dont know what to say please please please help – matthew
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Oh, Matthew, sometimes relationships just aren’t meant to be regardless of how much one partner may love the other. If she says she doesn’t want you back, I’d take it to mean she doesn’t want you back.
Because you have visitation with the children this obsession you have for her won’t go away easily. I don’t know what to tell you that will force you to “move on” so that you can have a less desperate relationship with your children’s mother. If the relationship is over for her, you have to accept that it’s over and continue to tell yourself until you believe it. It won’t be easy but relationships only work when both people want the same thing. ~ Queenie