I met a married man a few months ago, I know he has feelings for me, but not strong enough to leave his wife. He calls every day to check on me. He made a mistake by not calling me when he said he was going to once, so I avoided his calls, no longer wanting this relationship to continue.
He called me from an unavailable number, I answered the call & was short with him. He continued apologizing & promised to make it up. I told him there was no need for that & that maybe we should end the relationship, since he obviously loves his wife.
He bought me an expensive piece of jewerly, brought it to my work in the same town that he lives in. It’s obvious that he doesn’t want to get caught by his wife, but continues taking very big chances on jeopardizing his marriage.
I do care alot about this man, but this is not how I want to spend the rest of my life. But my question is, how do I break it off with him & be sure that he won’t become angry?
He has said to me on numerous occasions that he has no guilt about what he’s doing to his wife, but has guilt for what he is doing to me. There has been a few other times that he has cheated on his wife, he says this is different, which I find hard to believe.
I’m tired of this relationship, I can’t see where it’s going to go anywhere. But I think my hesitation not only lies with the fact that I do enjoy his company, but it has only been 2 months into the relationship, should I at least try to find out why he is cheating on his wife? or let it go?
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You’re not the first woman he’s cheated on his wife with so he knows what it takes to keep you interested otherwise you would have shown him the door when you first learned he was married.
Why would you try to find out why he is cheating on his wife? The answer is simple: because he can. People like you enable him to. — Queenie