My ex-boyfriend and i recently broke up after a two & a half year relationship because he found out i went out with another guy when we were on a break. i don’t know what to do, i love him very much and feel like he’s the one i want to be with for the rest of my life, but nothing seems to be working out.
He doesn’t trust me, which i know is understandable but how do i make him want to be with me again. i don’t know what i’d do without him. please help. — Blair
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Blair, were the two of you separated when you went out with this other guy or were you sneaking out hoping not to get caught?
If you were separated then you really don’t owe him an explanation for your actions during that period of time. If you dated while still supposedly in an exclusive relationship with him that’s a different story.
If he adamantly doesn’t want to forgive and try again then you can’t force him to return to the relationship. It takes two to make a relationship; unfortunately, it takes only one to break it. Hopefully you’ll learn a valuable lesson for your next serious commitment. — Queenie