The Trust Factor

My boyfriend continually accuses me of cheating on him, he won’t ever tell me that he loves me and rarely likes to cuddle. A year ago when we first got together and I didn’t know where we were headed after 2 weeks of dating I kissed another guy. I broke up with my boyfriend and confessed.


It seems he can’t get over it, WILL HE EVER? Does he accuse me because he still cannot trust me or because he is guilty as well? PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! He is getting so mad over the littlest things that I do that he is starting to become a control abuse freak!!!!!!!!!!!! — Tabatha
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Tabatha, if he hasn’t been able to get over a kiss from a year ago and your relationship is becoming abusive, I’m wondering why you’re still together. This isn’t what love is all about.

Granted, you kissed someone else but that was when the two of you had only been dating for TWO WEEKS! No one can expect a two week old relationship to be exclusive!

But you can expect a year old relationship to be loving and non-abusive. If it isn’t and it can’t be then you need to rethink your reasons for staying with this man. — Queenie