My high school sweetheart and I starting dating again about 3 years ago–both divorced. We see each other almost every day: dinner, movies, trips, events etc. I love her completely and date no others. Our sex life is awesome. The past year and half or so, an old boy friend she dated about 10 years ago–after her divorce–started calling her.
She is friends with his sister and says they are just friends. She has been to see him and stay the weekends 4 times in the past 6 months. I have asked her to set me “free”, but she says she loves only me and not him.
He has her in his will and she feels it is a stake she has for herself, her children and me. She swears there is no sex and she is a “one” man woman and I am that man. Should I believe her? Im so confused.
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So she’s spending weekends with an ex-boyfriend because she’s in his will? Interesting concept. Is the boyfriend terminally ill with a particularly poor prognosis? Is she just hanging in waiting for him to keel over so she can get her money?
Sorry, I can’t find the positive in this scenario. Considering an ex-boyfriend’s inheritance to be a “stake” in the future she and her kids have with you is fairly pathetic as far as excuses go although it is quite original and one I haven’t heard before.
Words are cheap, actions are what you need to look at to decide whether or not you believe her. As far as asking her to set you free? You have the key to your freedom, not her. — Queenie