I have fallen out of lust with my husband of 16 years, and know find myself thinking about a male friend who is a lot slimmer and more attractive than my husband. I am finding it very hard to rekindle any sort of sexual feelings for my husband now. What can I do? — Flo
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Flo, what about your marriage vows don’t you understand? I haven’t heard of any that state “until you become fat and unattractive” or “until the lust is gone”. If you don’t find your husband attractive no doubt there are plenty of women who would or do. Think about it. — Queenie