Hello I’ve been married for 12 years. I love my husband very much. He uses the cool as a blanket. weather he’s a little happy about something or alot. Exsample last week I boought some darts and baloons and put a special note in each one. I hung them up for him to enjoy. then sat there for two days! the balloons were going flat. I got fusterated and popped the balloons and laid the notes on his desk. He said why did you do that? I was saving them? how was I supposed to know he sure didn’t tell me, all he said was cool that’s really nice. That’s pretty much what he says when I make tacos!
Every once in a while I wish he could say thinngs to me like I say to him. like i love you, I am so lucky to have you in my life. With out feeling like I had to push him up ganist a wall first. I asked him didn’t you feel special and lucky that I went through this effort for you? He said no! It was nice but no. Am i just being shalow or what? I am hoping for something i shouldn’t? Ps if you don’t anwser this one please refer me to an answer. — Melany
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Melany, your husband expresses his feelings in his own way just as you express yours in your own way. That’s what makes the two of you unique and different. You want to change him so that he responds to you the same as you respond to him. That’s not him, and that’s not a fair request to make of him. Enjoy the man he is; don’t try to make him into the man he isn’t. — Queenie