I have a fiancee, i met him in internet, we love each other we shared thoughts, chatt w/ him everyday, he see me on webcam everyday.
He tells me all his past relationship, until oneday out of curiousity i try to open his email add. so open it, when i saw his inbox, i found out he still chatting w/ someone else, i know its wrong opening his inbox, so i dnt know if i get mad at him, so i write him a letter saying that i opened his inbox and i discover something there, maybe he was shock also for what i did.
he write me a letter telling that his not mad for what i did. maybe he was just reversing my psychology. now he ask me that what comes to my mind that i opened his inbox, what should i say, he ask for my explanation? i opened it bec. i just to how faithfull he is to me. — Red
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Red, you did something you shouldn’t have because you weren’t sure if he was being faithful. You found out he is still talking to other girls which would probably make just about anyone angry.
You shouldn’t have opened his inbox and read his email and he shouldn’t be carrying on with other girls if the two of you are seriously involved. He’s not mad because you caught him. Are you mad because he is still talking to other girls?
Do you trust him? Can you trust him? Can you stay out of his inbox? Until there is trust, there isn’t much future for the two of you. — Queenie