Just found out there is a women who is coming on to my bf. he has told her he wants to only be friends because he is with me. but she is trying to get him to call her. telling him to call when i am a sleep or go out so she can tell him what she wants to do to him. sending him pic of her boobs and storys of them having sex and asking him to call her and meet her.
I an not sure what to do with this. he dose not know i know any of this and i dont want to make a big deal out of this. He as told her he is with me. but tells her if we were not together he would get with her..
my bf and i have only been together about year just moved in. i dont like to be jealous. he dose not like girl who are. i need some help is this something guys do. he has pick me over her but why dose he not stop talking with her and saving the pic of her boobs. i need some help please what would you do.
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It takes two to keep these games going. By telling her that he’d get with her if he wasn’t with you, he keeps the game going. She figures all she needs to do is continue to take her best shots and one day she’ll bump you out of the game/relationship.
Not many people who play these kinds of games want their current partner to be jealous. Why would they? It creates too many problems for them.
What would I do? I’d tell him to choose one of us. If he chose me, he’d have to cut all contact with her and delete all photos. If he chose her, I’d know the relationship never had a future. — Queenie