Why does everyone condemn loving a married man? Haven’t people ever heard of divorce or 2nd marriages? Often military men marry young because of inexperience when they go overseas. For the woman, the desire is often to come to the States. One day the boy grows up and realizes that lust is not love, and this marriage is not working.
When you are military and a child is involved, it is not easy to divorce. It is even more difficult being married to a citizen of another country, and the guilt of sending the person and your child back to poverty it prevalent.
Some relationships work. Each case depends on the individual. Sometimes, married men leave, and find happier 2nd marriages. — Terri
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Terri, it sounds as though you’re trying hard to justify being the “other woman” of a married man. Keep trying.
I’m all for loving a married man. As long as I’m married to him. Would you really want someone else to love your married man? — Queenie