Hey, well i have this friend, and well he really likes me. but i have to him meny time’s that we r just friends and nothing more. But he dont seem to get that. he always ask’s me if i would kiss him. He gets really up set at me if he findes out that i went out on a date. He also tell’s me that the people i date r losers and that he dont like them, even thow he has never met him. or anybody i date.
To be honest i have tryed to look at my friend in more then just friends but i just dont look at him in that way. i dont feel that conaction between us. and i have tryed so hard to try and tell him but he just dont lisen. WE always end up fighting all the time about it and he always brings up other guys as if i was his girlfriend. i dont think he has that right maybe as a friend but nothing eles. i was woundring how could i get it throw to him that we are just friends and nothing more.
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Just my personal opinion, of course, but I don’t think real friends treat their friends this way. Are you leading him on, giving him hope that this ‘friendship’ could turn into a love thing? Have the two of you ever had a love thing going?
From what you say, he’s messing it up between you and other guys, he’s trying to push for more than you want to give, and you two argue about the same thing all the time. Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship or a relationship worth keeping unless he backs down and acts like a true friend and not like a jilted or heartsick lover. — Queenie