okay i am married to a lady she had a child by another guy 10 years ago and i raised this child with her and we have a son toghether the problem she talks to this other guy alot and everytime we have an issue she runs back to him he wants her but he does not want the responiabily of all three of them.
i am ready to move on she has spent the night with him on several occasions latley and i do not get any sex she also had a girlfreind who she says she is in love with but the other girls father devloped a crush on beth and came over to our house one day while i was not here and left his cell phone on and one of his daughters heard it and he confessed to his wife he had a crush on beth so her family is mad with beth and the other girl cannot see her so she ran back to her ex hell am i to easy going or what we have a nice house and i have a decent job beth does not even have to work but she runs around with this other guy once she told me sex with him was great now she says they are just freinds i told her to go move with him but she want what should i do?
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Well, first I think you should learn to make smaller sentences as I had a difficult time keeping up with exactly what’s going on here. If I interpret this correctly, your wife is hanging out with another guy but they’re just friends even though they’ve spent the night together and she says sex with him is great, and also says she’s in love with another woman.
No doubt there’s her side of this but if her side includes this other guy and being in love with this other woman then I think you need to ask yourself how you want to spend the rest of your life. You shouldn’t come in third, fourth or fifth choice with your wife. You should be number one and the only one.
I can’t tell you what to do. You have choices to make. Counseling for you or the both of you might be a good option to see if your marriage is worth saving. — Queenie