I have been married for almost 2 years and I love my husband more each day; however, the other night while I was out (a girls night out sort of thing), a guy hit on me at a bar. It was overwhelmingly flattering and I felt some attraction for him.
Is this normal? I’m feeling so guilty and it’s really depressing me. Do you have any advice for me, please???? — Morgan
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Morgan, it’s always flattering to be hit on. But what did you expect? You were in a bar with a bunch of girlfriends. That’s where guys expect to be able to hit on women and maybe get lucky with a few.
If you love your husband as much as you say you do then accept the fact that a guy in a bar thinks you’re attractive enough to hit on and leave it at that. If you fantasize over this you’re going to cause a great deal of harm to your marriage. — Queenie