My husband is gay. He has a lovers. I am ok with this and he and I are not sexual, but great friends. I need sex with a straight man. He is ok with this, but I am afraid I will want more. Should I try it?
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You already want more. In my opinion, you don’t really have a marriage, you have a legally binding relationship without sexual exclusivity — at least on his part. Yours is one of many “marriages” that are used by gay men and women to hide their true sexuality.
So, do you find a sex partner for yourself or do you not? If you find the right man you will realize what you are missing from your “marriage.” Then you’ll have to decide whether to stay or go.
Should you try it? If it were me, I’d end the marriage and then look for a straight man so that if I found a man who was “all that” I’d be free to commit to him.
Maybe there’s too much at stake between you and your husband to leave the marriage. Only you can decide that. But once you venture out, things will change. Good luck in whatever you decide. ~ Queenie