I have been happily married for 14 years to a wonderful man who treats me like gold. I am crazy in love with him. My problem is prior to getting married I had a terrible 9 year relationship with my first love. He treated me like dirt, cheated lied etc.
Now he is married with 4 children and last week sent me an email about how he wishes he could go back and redo our relationship and he wishes things would have turned out different. He says he relized now he loves me more than ever.
I absolutely love my husband and would not trade places to be with my old boyfriend, but I’m half flattered and would like to be a good friend to my ex. At the same time this is messing with my head and confusing my life.
I feel guilty telling my ex to get lost and not being a friend to him, but I don’t want to ruin my life. Help, thanks ahead of time. — Margie
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Margie, this guy lied, cheated, and treated you like dirt for 9 years and now he wants to come back and have another go at you and you’re actually thinking about giving him a chance? On top of which he’s married? Are you nuts?
If you want to ruin your current marriage to a man who treats you like gold by getting involved with a man who treated you like dirt, start a friendship with this loser.
If you’re smart and really love your husband like you say you do you’ll delete this loser’s email address for good. — Queenie