I broke up with my girlfriend a few days ago because I felt that she was lying to me about alot of things. She does drugs and hangs out in bars on a regular basis and prefers to go to these places without me. She says that she does not want the burden of having to be attentive to me around her friends.
A couple of weeks ago she came home with someone elses phone number and within a few days she was hanging out at this persons house having dinner claiming that nothing was going on she says she was there because her best friend was there and dates this persons roommate. Well anyway this person calls the house all the time and I know because I checked the messages.
She has been unfaithful in every relationship in the past and I feel that she has been unfaithful now. My point being I felt left out because she was always doing things without me and going places with people I have never met.
After 8 months of dating I only met a few of her friends and I am not aloud to answer the phone nor have I met her parents. This has been a huge interfence for me because I work full time and I’m a full time student.
She says I’m a jerk for leaving her and I that I never loved her. I loved her very much,but I feel like a fool and I’m afraid she will call me again and say she will change like she has done before. What do you think I should do? — Confusion
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Words are the world’s cheapest commodity. Actions tell all. What do you think, based upon her words and actions, are the chances of you and she ever having a decent, respectful relationship? I think your odds are better of winning the lottery.
She does what she knows. What she doesn’t know is how to be faithful in a relationship. — Queenie